What does the success of a partnership depend on?

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Only hard work on the problem will bring about change. By observing couples through colored glass, research has shown that in 92 percent of couples, a breakup that will occur within seven years can be predicted, that is, if a person carries the pattern, it will be manifested at some point.

Nikola Žuvela, psychotherapist and jyotish consultant

The key to relationship success, as revealed in research, is commitment in communication.

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Those who close themselves off and were not concentrating on what their partner was saying, carry a pattern that materializes easily, that is, the relationship breaks down.

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And astrology we see patterns through the positions of the planets playing a game of shadows that reflect what couples do not see. We still operate on old beliefs that show that marriage has no future based on these understandings of love unless we begin to question the real reasons for marriage breakdown based on subconscious patterns.

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If we claim to be a rational civilization, why do we irrationally cling to mythological beliefs in a dysfunctional way of relating?

It is a serious problem and represents a civilizational denial of the truth, as well as a denial that we have an ecological problem, all of which is related to an instinctive life based on a selfish gene or a developmental disorder where many people remain locked in the first chakra or selfishness.

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However, many are deceived that narcissism can not bring a successful relationship, which is not true.

The normal narcissism of an individual, the traditional upbringing and the positive emotions that reign in the family can bring an individual a good marriage, which means that because of positive models and traditions, he chooses a partner with similar opinions.

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Therefore, the possibility of relationship is possible in such life constellations. However, going deeper into relationships brings the realization that there is only love without suffering, because if there is suffering, it means that it was not even true love.

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And that’s the point where people stop, that’s why they don’t open up because they can see that their aspirations and desires are directed in a completely wrong direction, like worrying about the future or advancing in the career.

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When in a relationship we begin to face our own Animus or Anima, the opposite unconscious side in which we see that there is no fault and that there is no joy and unhappiness, then the disintegration of the ego.

The majority do not accept what they see and quickly surround themselves with external circumstances that blame and accuse, and few stop before the image and the situation appear and step by step they begin to realize their inner content, which never ceases ‘ without external change.

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Therefore, those who really want love, will find it, but sometimes that path does not consist of just a few months, it has a lot of initiation and commitment is necessary because love requires a complete change of the individual, and it is connected with knowledge.

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This is why the next time we look for love, the question of how much we can give ourselves is much more important, because the problem is not in love, but in ourselves. We fight against the realization and abandonment of opinions that deprive us of responsibility for our own lives.

How can we do this? Let’s test ourselves.

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If love is important to us, how willing are we to change our opinions, to learn, to observe, to open up to a lack of pleasure and pleasure and all the other situations that will test us on the path in which the beginning of materialization our soul’s content.

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Many do not want to accept such a development of events and that is why we hide behind perfectionism and obsessive complicity – obsessing over things because we are afraid of the complexity of relationships.

To move, we need to spread the sails for the wind to carry us, and this means that we need to be in a regular practice of meditation that teaches us to observe the content we give and expose ourselves to what will happen to us on the road , from the bill for electricity, to a meeting with an unexpected person or lack of money, quarrel.

Change depends on us, not on circumstances.

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